Garden Candle Lanterns Future M-I-L Is Taking Over Wedding, What Do I Do?

Future M-I-L is taking over wedding, what do I do? - garden candle lanterns

My friend and I agreed that our wedding would be different - we chose a theme of Dark Enchanted Garden with white roses, red, black and very little ... even my imported custom made, red dress from Shanghai, China. We want roses, ivy, butterflies and fairies at our wedding and reception looked as happy as can be (a dark gothic sorta way) The problem is ... her mother is lost! She went to buy candles, heart-shaped red, white and silver ... Candlesticks bought red heart-shaped, and even refused to buy anything black (she thinks that black represents Satan and evil) for our wedding. Unfortunately, she died to pay for everything, (which for the wedding of my friend's father and his money in the trust fund are kept, so that we can not use if you write the check to), it collects nearly all, of course! Then she made the effort to purchase Japanese lanterns, matters of the heart and even more, we want our candy table Nitch / idea of personalized chocolate ... What do we do? We want to be our marriage, as we want is the money my friend ", P. .. So what do we do? You're afraid if he says, not our marriage, they enter to pay their money, leaves us with nothing ... I do not want to be impolite to say so kind as to withdraw, and how our plan in this way?